Reinventing Retirement from 2Young2Retire

Edition of 11/10/2005

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Reinventing Retirement

Senior Cohousing. Transition Navigator. Cool Career #116, Play Consultant.

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  1. Senior Cohousing

  2. Transition Navigator: volunteer opportunity

  1. Cool Career #116: Play Consultant

  2. Work Longer, Live Longer

  • Housing remains a hot issue for older Americans -- people over 50 bought more than 25 percent of all new homes this year. So it isn't so surprising that big bucks are being spent to market the amenities (golf, tennis, fitness centers) and home designs this population of empty-nesters most desires. Age-restricted communities pioneered by Del Webb (now part of Pulte Homes) continue to attract large numbers of people who prefer the security of a gated environment and the company of their peers. But strong interest is also emerging in other choices. One we think has a lot going for it is senior cohousing. (Full discussion follows.)

    Recommended Book:Senior Cohousing: A Community Approach to Independent Living (Habitat Press, 2005) by Charles Durrett makes a strong case for this form of cooperative living for older adults on the basis of quality of life. The book, a follow up to Cohousing: A Contemporary Approach to Housing Ourselves which Mr. Durrett co-authored with his wife and partner, Kathryn McCamant, is also based on research the author conducted on communities in Denmark, which he considers "at least 20 years ahead of North Americans" in the concept. Billed as a 'handbook,' Senior Cohousing delivers on its promise. It is packed with site plans of cohousing communities (a true one-picture-equals-a-thousand-words), interviews with residents, cost comparisons, and as clear a 'how to' proceed as you'll find on this or any subject. You could begin with Chapter 7, Study Group I: Is Cohousing for You? Then read Mariendalsvej: A Cautionary Tale, p. 79-84. The bottom line: a community forms in the process of forming a community. Even if you decide cohousing isn't for you, this lively book is a mind-opener on the subject.
  • Transition Navigator. Sounds like an operative on the Starship Enterprise, but in fact describes a member of the volunteer staff of The Hub, a community resource for mid-life and older adults that opened at the Newton Free Library (Newton, MA) November 1. Transition Navigators are trained to guide users to information on housing, medical care, elder affairs, relocations, technology, employment and volunteer opportunities. The Hub is the latest development of Discovering What's Next Revitalizing Retirement, the brainchild of elder affairs expert, Carol Greenfield, DWN president. Kudos to Carol, and also to Brookline psychiatrist, George Klavens, and his wife, Cissie, executive coach and career consultant, who have been instrumental in forums, discussion groups and film evenings for the past three years. More info: 617-969-5906 ext. 299, dwnext@comcast.net.
    If you don't have a Hub in your neighborhood, you may have to create one.

  • Cool Career #116: Play Consultant. "Terry Sand is a wife and mother who once worked as a successful television anchorwoman in the San Francisco Bay Area. Five years ago she made a radical career change and is now a play consultant for some of Silicon Valley's biggest, most stressful corporations. Terry teaches high tech workers effective, low-tech methods for neutralizing stress, thinking creatively, and working harmoniously with others." http://www.instituteforplay.com/7playing_at_work.htm

  • Grandparents go the extra mile to live near their grandchildren (we know, we know). See this report in the Christian Science Monitor: http://www.csmonitor.com/2005/1109/p13s01-lifp.html

  • If you want to make this a greener holiday season, consider Coop America's People's Choice Award for Green Business of the Year, Ten Thousand Villages, a catalog of gifts from craftspeople around the world. http://www.tenthousandvillages.com/

"Home," wrote Robert Frost, "is the place where, when you have to go there, they have to take you in." A student of poetry will immediately notice that Frost has packed his one liner with some complicated ideas. His insight captures the complicated relationship we have with the place we call home, however mobile we are as a society.

Housing remains a hot issue for older Americans -- people 50 and older bought more than 25 percent of all new homes this year. So it isn't so surprising that big bucks are being spent to market the amenities (golf, tennis, fitness centers) and home design this population of empty-nesters most desires. Age-restricted communities pioneered by Del Webb (now part of Pulte Homes) continue to attract large numbers of people who prefer the security of a gated environment and the company of their peers.

But strong interest is also emerging in small towns and college towns, and more recently, in urban condos (see Satisfaction, www.satisfactionmag.com). This tell us that a significant part of us have a definition of home that goes far beyond built-in conveniences and a well-equipped fitness facility. People are creating NORCs (naturally occurring retirement communities) by choosing to age in place, surrounded by friends and neighbors of like-mind, and demanding community resources to support this choice. And others are experimenting with newer, evolving forms of housing. One of these is Senior Cohousing.

Invented in Denmark about 25 years ago and transplanted to North America in 1988, cohousing is a form of collaborative living that attracts people who want a deeper sense of community than is usually available in most cities, suburbs or gated, 55+ housing. It is as much an idea, a philosophy, even a movement, as an innovation in housing. It may very well be an idea whose time as come, see Wikipedia, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cohousing
for a good overview.

Currently, there are 165 established communities in the U.S. to date and many more in various stages of development. In cohousing, residents own (or rent) a dwelling that is oriented around common open areas and a common building that may include any or all of the following: dining room, library, lounge, laundry, workshop, gym, and so on. Community is inherent in the design, to maximize social interaction among residents. In keeping with these aspirations, community size is typically between 20 and 30 individual homes. Many communities schedule a dinner for all residents at least two nights a week, and residents take turns doing the cooking and clean up.

The other major difference between cohousing and other planned communities, is that they are self-managed using a participatory process that requires a commitment of time and energy (and works as an excellent screening device for prospective members). In fact, participation is established in the earliest planning stages, and members have usually bonded long before groundbreaking. Cohousing shares some of the features of an intentional community, but does not espouse any particular ideology. Many tend to be 'green' and sustainable in their orientation, and some, e.g. EcoVillage in Ithaca, NY, http://www.ecovillage.ithaca.ny.us/ have won environmental awards.

In its infancy in the U.S., senior cohousing is in many ways identical to cohousing, with some distinctions. It offers the advantages of cohousing to those who prefer interaction with their peer group. The design of both individual homes and common spaces takes into account changes in the physical abilities of residents who desire to age in community (as opposed to merely aging in place). Senior cohousing mitigates the isolation and loneliness often experienced by older adults who have lost a partner, or whose family lives far away. Unlike 'assisted living' and other institutionalized housing currently available, residents are empowered as decision-makers, a key feature in health and vitality later in life.

If it is true that we make a home, and then our home makes us, choosing where and how we live in later life is as important a decision as any we'll ever make. With that in mind, here are more housing resources for you and/or the elders in your family to consider.

www.cohousing.org includes established communities with homes for sale or rent, and those being planned, as well as a lot of general information on the subject. See also Intentional Communities, www.ic.org

Elder Co-Housing: http://www.eldercohousing.org/
The next Elder Cohousing workshop will take place February 16 -19, 2006 in Boulder, Colorado.

Silver Sage Village, Boulder, Co. http://www.silversagevillage.com/ It has four homes left at this writing.

Dr. Bill Thomas, Eden Alternatives, http://www.pbs.org/thoushalthonor/eden/

McCamant & Durrett Architects (The CoHousing Company), www.cohousingco.com) Kathryn McCamant and Charles Durrett are largely responsible for the introduction of cohousing in the United States, and continue to be at the forefront of the movement.

A classic on ideal-driven housing: Skinner, B. F. Walden Two. MacMillan Co., 1948.

‰•˛Back to the City,‰•ˇ Satisfaction magazine, www.satisfactionmag.com

Del Webb's answer to active adult living: http://www.delwebb.com/Lifestyle/Default.aspx

NORCs. Good example of community support for naturally occurring retirement community, http://www.nyc.gov/html/nycha/html/norc.html

Senior Frat House? What can happen when you fill your empty nest with friends.
http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2005/08/31/HOGEQEDF371.DTL

Senior Housing Net, an overview and current definitions under the umbrella of senior housing. http://www.seniorhousingnet.com/seniors/ See also, Retirement Net: http://www.retirenet.com/

Further thoughts on the subject of housing, write to marika@2young2retire.com

Stay well, make it new, make it better.

Marika and Howard Stone
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