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Table of Contents
1.
Harvesting Your Experience: Ethical Wills 2. The Greening of Us
3. Freedom
to Work
This
season of mists and mellow fruitfulness (Keats' To Autumn)
is a good time to consider harvesting our experience for future
generations. We've written a lot in these pages about the value of
the mature experience to the workplace, the economy and society.
What we invite you to consider here is a different kind of harvest,
one that includes your life's experiences, the lessons you've
learned, the values you hold, stories about your family, what you
consider your life's mission, in short, all that you hold dear, and
offer it as a gift to your family, friends and community. We are
speaking here of the Ethical Will, and many of you are no doubt
familiar with it.
The
tradition of the ethical will is at least as old as Genesis, although
the concept has appeared in many traditions, according to experts.
It can be combined with a last will and testament and/or personal
directive, but its purpose and form are typically different. A will
(you do have one, don't you?) is a legal document that contains your
instructions on how you wish your property and personal effects
including your remains managed upon your death. The ethical will
is not a legal document. It's power lies elsewhere. For the writer,
it is an opportunity to conduct a life review in narrative form
although poetry is not out of the question -- that may provide a
moral compass for those that follow, suggest Phyllis
Goldberg and Rosemary Lichtman, two Ph. D. psychotherapists
and co-authors of a forthcoming book for the sandwich generation
on family relationships. For receivers, it is priceless.
Many
ethical wills are motivatred by turning points in a life. Others are
composed for the pure pleasure of getting one's story down, leaving
one's mark preoccupations of many of us at midlife and beyond.
Passages of autobiography, lists of accomplishments, instructions,
favorite books or authors, wishes for the future, a record of family
history or traditions, even challenges to children, have all appeared
in ethical wills. We all wish to be remembered. The ethical will is
one way. If you'd like to pursue this project, here are some
resources to get your started.
http://www.ethicalwill.com/
http://www.science-spirit.org/article_detail.php?article_id=535
http://www.acfnewsource.org/religion/ethical_wills.html
The
Greening of Us
Finally,
we have consensus in the scientific community. Al Gore's An
Inconvenient Truth has it right on global warming. If you
haven't seen this film, that would be a good place to start educating
yourself on this urgent issue. At the end of the film, Gore
mentioned one promising technology we are likely to be hearing a lot
more about: CO2
Capture Technology:
http://www.planetark.com/dailynewsstory.cfm/newsid/38487/story.htm
The
truth is, we older citizens need to show leadership in this matter.
We all need to do our part to reduce our contribution to greenhouse
emissions. When gas prices soared recently, there was a mini-boom in
bicycle sales, so people do know how to respond quickly. Malcolm
Gladwell (The Tipping Point) knows a thing or two about big change
happening with small shifts in behavior, and that certainly makes me
feel better about recycling. See:
http://www.toprankblog.com/2006/04/malcolm-gladwell-pubcon-boston-keynote/
If
you can't afford a hybrid car, and biking isn't your cup of tea,
there are still a few other things you can do right now. (More on
hybrids: http://www.hybridcenter.org/owners/bill-nye.html)
1
Use compact flourescent lightbulbs. If
every American home replaced just one light bulb with an ENERGY STAR,
we would save enough energy to light more than 2.5 million homes for
a year and prevent greenhouse gases equivalent to the emissions of
nearly 800,000 cars.
http://www.energystar.gov/index.cfm?c=cfls.pr_cfls
2.
Turn
off lights and appliances when not it use. That's obvious, but it
pays to unplug them, too, to avoid phantom
power loss. http://www.onedayvancouver.ca/ask_archive.php?type=1
3. Buy
energy efficient appliances. See Energy Star ratings.
4. Try
to consolidate trips in your car, not to mention passengers. Isn't
amazing how many single driver cars there still are despite the 2-car
rule in HOV lanes in most major cities? Ride-sharing just makes good
sense.
5. Set air conditioner settings a few degrees higher
and heater settings a few degrees lower. Another no brainer. For
an energy audit: http://hes.lbl.gov/
6.
Properly insulate your home. According to a new book called Heat:
How to Stop the Planet Burning by George Monbiot (Penguin 2006),
heating and cooling our homes are major causes of wasted energy and
greenhouse gas emissions. Retrofitting existing housing stock isn't
cheap or easy, except when you consider the alternatives.
7.Buy
more locally produced food and products which don't require as much
transportation. Let's not keep on trucking. Look for a CSA
farm near you. Community Sponsored Agriculture:
http://www.walnutgrovefarms.net/Walnut%20Grove%20Farms%20CSA.pdf
8.
Turn down the temperature of your water heater. Better yet,
investigate an on-demand type of heater. Until you can replace your
old model, wrap it up so your hot water stays hot longer. See:
http://www.gotankless.com/
Sources:
http://www.stopglobalwarming.org/default.asp and http://www.planetark.com/
Quick Takes
Freedom
to Work. As you probably know, between age 65 and 69, you can
continue to receive Social Security benefits even if you are
working, thanks to the Senior Citizen's Freedom to Work Act of 2000
signed by President Clinton. If you need a refresher course on the
pros and cons of Social Security benefits whether to take them
at 62 or wait until your 70th birthday here's a good
one. The Elder Law report:
http://www.elderlawanswers.com/resources/article.asp?id=5730§ion=4&state= For
the Freedom to Work Act:
http://www.sva.com/downloads/soc_sec_changes.pdf
Quotable.
Former Governor of Delaware, Russ Peterson: "I've had about 15
careers. To my way of thinking, retiring is not the end of a
career, it's just the opportunity to start another career."
Peterson, 90, was speaking at the opening of a new Jewish Family
Services program aimed at people 50 and older, called GEM for
Growth, Education and Mental Fitness, see:
http://www.delawareonline.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20061002/NEWS/610020335/-1/NEWS01
We
get a charge out of passing along useful, web-based tools. Here are
two more 2young2retire picks.
Seeking
business ideas? The hottest franchise opportunities could be an
indication.
http://yahoo.fransol.com/index.cfm/fa/ypss
Resume
writing is an art form that requires you to put your best foot
forward without an unseemly overstating of your accomplishments. All
of us could use some help in striking the right balance, and this
site does a pretty good job:
http://www.nextsteps.org/resume/resquiz.html
More
Signs of the Times:
According
to ACNielsen International Research, more than 1.3 million people
worldwide are making a primary or secondary income on eBay. Low
barrier to entry is probably one reason. For those of us who don't
want to open a store, virtual or otherwise, to dispose of our stuff,
there are Ebay
Trading Assistants who do the work and take a cut of the proceeds.
A
diesel engine will run on just about any fluid you give it,"
Steve Adler told the NBC TV station in Providence, after he bought a
used RV and had its diesel engine converted to run on waste
vegetable oils. "I happen to like vegetable oil because it's
free and it smells good." Source: RV Travel Newsletter,
http://rvtravel.com/publish/newsletter/issue245.shtml
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