7. GROWING GOOD CORN & THE DALAI LAMA From The Millionaire Eagles www.milleagles.com Growing Good Corn There was a farmer who grew award-winning corn. Each year he entered his corn in the state fair where it won a blue ribbon. One year a newspaper reporter interviewed him and learned something interesting about how he grew it. The reporter discovered that the farmer shared his seed corn with his neighbors. "How can you afford to share your best seed corn with your neighbors when they are entering corn in competition with yours each year?" the reporter asked. "Why sir," said the farmer, "didn't you know? The wind picks up pollen from the ripening corn and swirls it from field to field. If my neighbors grow inferior corn, cross-pollination will steadily degrade the quality of my corn. If I am to grow good corn, I must help my neighbors grow good corn." He is very much aware of the connectedness of life. His corn cannot improve unless his neighbor's corn also improves. So it is in other dimensions. Those who choose to be at peace must help their neighbors to be at peace. Those who choose to live well must help others to live well, for the value of a life is measured by the lives it touches. And those who choose to be happy must help others to find happiness, for the welfare of each is bound up with the welfare of all. The lesson for each of us is this: if we are to grow good corn, we must help our neighbors grow good corn. --Author Unknown The Dalai Lama At the end of a talk someone from the audience asked the Dalai Lama, "Why didn't you fight back against the Chinese?" The Dalai Lama looked down, swung his feet just a bit, then looked back up at us and said with a gentle smile, "Well, war is obsolete, you know." Then, after a few moments, his face grave, he said, "Of course the mind can rationalize fighting back...but the heart, the heart would never understand. Then you would be divided in yourself, the heart and the mind, and the war would be inside you." Millionaire motto: Friendship, generosity and harmony are always more productive than conflict. ******************************************************************** 8. WIRED TO COOPERATE I think the following article is more evidence that we humans are designed to love and care for each other. All of my work is premised on this fact. For me this research tracks the observation by the biologist Humberto Maturana that on the evolutionary scale humans are designed for compasion. Biologically, because of the development of our oppositional thumb joint, we can caress any part of ourself, or each other. No other creature can do that. Try caressing with a hoof or a claw. Why We're So Nice: We're Wired to Cooperate July 23, 2002 By NATALIE ANGIER Scientists have discovered that the small, brave act of cooperating with another person makes the brain light up with quiet joy. http://www.nytimes.com/2002/07/23/health/psychology/23COOP.html?ex=1028525120&ei=1&en=2b3ec1cf2a86a246 *************************************************** 9. ETHICS OF REVENGE [The ethics of revenge--by a father who lost his son to terror. If he can have compassion we all can. I believe this came from Eryn Kalish. It is definitely worth the read.] A speech made by Yitzhak Frankenthal, Chairman of the Families Forum, at a rally in Jerusalem on Saturday, July 27, 2002, outside the Prime Minister's residence. My beloved son Arik, my own flesh and blood, was murdered by Palestinians. My tall blue-eyed golden-haired son who was always smiling with the innocence of a child and the understanding of an adult. My son. If to hit his killers, innocent Palestinian children and other civilians would have to be killed, I would ask the security forces to wait for another opportunity. If the security forces were to kill innocent Palestinians as well, I would tell them they were no better than my son's killers. My beloved son Arik was murdered by a Palestinian. Should the security forces have information of this murderer's whereabouts, and should it turn out that he was surrounded by innocent children and other Palestinian civilians, then - even if the security forces knew that the killer was planning another murderous attack that was to be launched within hours and they now had the choice of curbing a terror attack that would kill innocent Israeli civilians but at the cost of hitting innocent Palestinians, I would tell the security forces not to seek revenge but to try to avoid and prevent the death of innocent civilians, be they Israelis or Palestinians. I would rather have the finger that pushes the trigger or the button that drops the bomb tremble before it kills my son's murderer, than for innocent civilians to be killed. I would say to the security forces: do not kill the killer. Rather, bring him before an Israeli court. You are not the judiciary. Your only motivation should not be vengeance, but the prevention of any injury to innocent civilians. Ethics are not black and white - they are all white. Ethics have to be free of vengefulness and rashness. Every act must be carefully weighed before a decision is made to see whether it meets the strict ethical criteria. Ethics cannot be left to the discretion of anyone who is frivolous or trigger-happy. Our ethics are hanging by a thread, at the mercy of every soldier and politician. I am not at all sure that I am willing to delegate my ethics to them. It is unethical to kill innocent Israeli or Palestinian women and children. It is also unethical to control another nation and to lead it to lose its humaneness. It is patently unethical to drop a bomb that kills innocent Palestinians. It is blatantly unethical to wreak vengeance upon innocent bystanders. It is, on the other hand, supremely ethical to prevent the death of any human being. But if such prevention causes the futile death of others, the ethical foundation for such prevention is lost. A nation that cannot draw the line is doomed to eventually apply unethical measures against its own people. The worst in my mind is not what has already happened but what I am sure one day will. And it will - because ethics are now being twisted and the political and military leadership does not even have the most basic integrity to say: "we are sorry". We lost sight of our ethics long before the suicide bombings. The breaking point was when we started to control another nation. My son Arik was born into a democracy with a chance for a decent, settled life. Arik's killer was born into an appalling occupation, into an ethical chaos. Had my son been born in his stead, he may have ended up doing the same. Had I myself been born into the political and ethical chaos that is the Palestinians' daily reality, I would certainly have tried to kill and hurt the occupier; had I not, I would have betrayed my essence as a free man. Let all the self-righteous who speak of ruthless Palestinian murderers take a hard look in the mirror and ask themselves what they would have done had they been the ones living under occupation. I can say for myself that I, Yitzhak Frankenthal, would have undoubtedly become a freedom fighter and would have killed as many on the other side as I possibly could. It is this depraved hypocrisy that pushes the Palestinians to fight us relentlessly. Our double standard that allows us to boast the highest military ethics, while the same military slays innocent children. This lack of ethics is bound to corrupt us. My son Arik was murdered when he was a soldier by Palestinian fighters who believed in the ethical basis of their struggle against the occupation. My son Arik was not murdered because he was Jewish but because he is part of the nation that occupies the territory of another. I know these are concepts that are unpalatable, but I must voice them loud and clear, because they come from my heart - the heart of a father whose son did not get to live because his people were blinded with power. As much as I would like to do so, I cannot say that the Palestinians are to blame for my son's death. That would be the easy way out, but it is we, Israelis, who are to blame because of the occupation. Anyone who refuses to heed this awful truth will eventually lead to our destruction. The Palestinians cannot drive us away - they have long ac knowledged our existence. They have been ready to make peace with us; it is we who are unwilling to make peace with them. It is we who insist on maintaining our control over them; it is we who escalate the situation in the region and feed the cycle of bloodshed. I regret to say it, but the blame is entirely ours. I do not mean to absolve the Palestinians and by no means justify attacks against Israeli civilians. No attack against civilians can be condoned. But as an occupation force it is we who trample over human dignity, it is we who crush the liberty of Palestinians and it is we who push an entire nation to crazy acts of despair. Finally, I call on my brothers and sisters in the settlements - see what we have come to. *********************************************************************
10. MINDFULLNESS AND MEDIATION For me the following link says a great deal about the kind of exploration being done in the traditional bastions of legal culture. Professor Len Riskin is the chair of the ADR (Alternative Dispute Resolution) program at the the University of Missouri, Columbia School of Law, considered the top ranking program in the country. In the spring his scholarly article about mindfulness meditation and mediation was published in the Harvard Negotiation Law Review. Check out http://www.pon.harvard.edu/news/2002/video_riskin_mindfulness.php3 to see the streaming video of over 2 hours of a conference at Harvard Law School centering on mindfulness meditation and mediation presented by the Harvard Negotiation Law Review. This is very exciting! ************************************************ 11. WE THE WORLD FYI... WE, THE WORLD Making a Difference - For Life http://www.WeTheWorld.org A message from Earl James (Campaign for UN Reform, New Mexico Environmental Law Center, We, The World Advisory Board): "Dear Friend, Something remarkable is happening that I want you to know about. Dozens of individuals around the world, some of whom have spent years or entire careers establishing new and profound ways of understanding and shaping our world have come together to support and help guide a new global network for change called We, The World. "Individuals as diverse in experience and accomplishments as Jane Goodall, Daniel Ellsberg, Patch Adams, Riane Eisler, Angaangaq Lyberth, Hazel Henderson and Paul Ray have realized that working alone, the fruits of their uncommon labors will not have the impact upon global society necessary to begin to turn us toward true sustainability and peace. Working together, however, they, we and you can help create the global political will necessary to really make a difference." We, the Governing Board of We, The World, invite you to participate with this extraordinary international team to dramatically increase public involvement in the vital work being done locally and globally to create a peaceful and sustainable world. The next email you receive from us describes the compelling vision, strategy, the exceptional people working with We, The World, writeups of our current projects (such as Interdependence Day) and how to get involved. While reviewing that email, please consider the following ways that you and your organization/affiliation can participate with us: --> Become an Interdependence Day Sponsor or Co-Sponsor --> Become an Individual and/or Organization Member of We, The World Also, we would be most appreciative if you forward the next message to people you know that haven't given up hope that the destructive direction the world is now headed in can be changed. That's what our international team is working towards! We look forward to working with you to create a world where people live in harmony with each other and with the rest of nature! We, The World 211 East 43rd Street Suite 710 New York, NY 10017 Phone: 212 867-0846 Fax: 212 867-0844 Email: Info@WeTheWorld.org Website: http://www.WeTheWorld.org ********************************************************************** ENJOY THE WANING DAYS OF SUMMER. HAVE A SAFE LABOR DAY. SAFE TRAVELS! ********************************************************************** Stewart Levine, Resolutionary Author: The Book of Agreement Getting to Resolution 301-657-6240 Cell: 202-549-5370 www.ResolutionWorks.org Building Communities of Agreement & Resolution
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